在一起就要结婚？

有一个谈恋爱不久的朋友，忽然拿了一个小册子给我看，那是一个很贵的名牌钻行的册子。他说看中了这个0.23卡拉的钻戒，价钱是接近马币十千。他说在一起就一定要结婚。

其实小时候，我曾经对自己说：24岁吧，那时候结婚刚刚好，26/7岁当个年轻爸爸也很不错，很酷吧。

然后单身了好多年，想想在二十五岁前找到个爱人，谈个3/4年的恋爱，然后结婚也不错。

但出来工作之后，时常面临工资好像不应开销的尴尬情况，觉得好像能在三十岁出结婚已经很不错了。

那如果要生孩子，可能要筹备个2/3年。哇，算一算，35岁能当爸爸就好像挺有本事的。哈哈

文转回那位朋友吧，吃要好的，穿要名牌的，连买个戒子也非要最贵的。

可能我本身比较实际，我还是觉得两个人在一起，开心就最好，省一点也能过日子。不是说在一起3年了就非结婚不可，也要看适不适合成为终生伴侣。

整整一年没有写部落各了，看来真的生疏了很多，请多多包涵。

thank you, WYY

Far too little post for 2012, could it be my mind stop thinking or at least doesn't think as much as I did previously?

Or this is supported by my theory of I complaint blog a lot when I emo? If that is the case, well I guess is a good indication that I dun really emo anymore. YEAH for me, sucks for my loyal reader that they have to go to this page and only to greeted by some old post from 2 3 months ago.

But I believe most of my loyal reader love me, so I think we should focus more on the I-dun-really-emo-anymore part. I mean, isn't that a good news for people who time and time again been troubled with sudden mood swing? I found out that because I'm feeling much more calm, I dun have to try so hard to force myself into sleep.

Credit must be given to the GF, she has been absolutely amazing for the past few month. Working hard on weekend, dropping by and spending time with me on the weekday. When you are surrounded by so much love, one cannot feel anything else but happy. Thanks, GF.

Inspired by Meow Meow

Life is miserable when you feel like shit and you still have to fake a smile while sharing jokes with your friend.

Life is miserable when you are poor and you still have to spend a lot every day.

Life is miserable when you want a shoulder to cry on and yet more burden is rested upon yours.

Life is miserable when you want solution and you keep bumping into more problems.

Life is miserable when ...... and .......

Sawadeekap

A short trip up north at this time of the year is just too good.

The travel companion were alright, not as good as the Tom Yam or fried rice, but at least we didn't quarrel or punch each other in the face.

Is always refresh to be away from work, stand aside as a spectator and watch people going on their daily life. And you are doing all this while you are chilling, puffing a cigarette on and off, either sipping or gulping bottle of beer.

No fancy dress, no extravagant spending, no rushing to the next destination, that's my kind of get away. Free and easy at its very best.

True to some extent, I was expecting to do more shopping. But things over there are more catered for the girl. So I bought 2 tees for myself and like another 5 pieces of female apparel.

I'm not sure when I will visit Bangkok again, but you can be damn sure that I will stay longer the next trip there. :)

裹足不前

      多虑是女生的天性。当女生听到这一句话时，往往她们都会以一大堆的理由来解释并对于这项说法非常反感。其实女生多虑不是她们的错，而是社会把她们塑造成弱势的角色。一直以来她们都被灌输“女人最怕嫁错郎”的想法，这么长久被熏染下，难免就会变得有所顾虑了。


      在这个分秒必争的现代环境，多虑就成了一种奢侈。深思熟虑是很多处事待人很重要的一节，可问题就出现在爱情本身是个很复杂的variable。多么聪明的数学家都没办法写出一个方程式来解答这个variable，因为爱情是建立在感觉基础上；而感觉是不能以任何理论和常识来做标准。


      有些事物是有必要去多听，多看，多经历多体会。但爱情还是不要去听别人的分享。当女生一直听见一些爱情里不如意的经历，再加上多虑的天性，她们就会变得裹足不前了。太多的“如果他这样，万一他那样”使她们没有勇气去打开心扉让爱情走进她们的生活。就算是小小的问题也很容易被放大，觉得好像没有解决的方案。


      所以小弟觉得恋爱就要勇敢，一定要积极往好哪方面看。不要一味的那么消极，再好的事情也会变质，觉得无趣了。那试问又怎样开开心心的牵手呢？




I will try to write in English too, but give me time coz I'm not using google translate haha

:( ):

There's a saying about memory never die, they just hide somewhere in your insanely huge capacity brain, waiting to lunged on you when you are least expecting, often during your most vulnerable period.


But not all memory are good one, there are some that you try really hard to get rid off but to no avail. Every now and then, those memories will come back. They are triggered by thing you see, hear, read, feel, and touch.


Sometimes, having a smartphone can be a curse. I don't mean the way it distract  you from work and you hooked onto Facebook for hours.


Just last night, I accidentally scrolled my phone to top of a message thread. As I go through some of the message, I realized what a scumbag I was. I am a firm believer of karma, so I guess I should man up and prepare for any retribution in the future.


Is funny how you work week in and work out, meet new friend and lose a couple of them throughout the process, but every once in a while you will still think and miss that person that was so close of to being your significant half.

unfit :(

After lazying busying resting lazying for almost 2 months, I finally went for a short jog today. This is on the back of doing the Towerthon on last Saturday night. 27 minutes to finish the whole thing. According to Sheanne , her record when she was 16 was better than me. Anyway, I will not let a 40-minutes-25-years old aunty rain on my parade.

And I realized how unfit I have become over the 60 days, I run slower, feel tired so much sooner. Is a wake up call for me and my tummy. I need to run more and more frequent.

I need to shout Run Forest Run every time before I start my run. Haha, I need to train my stamina and prepare for the 16.8km this coming September. 4 months is just a short 120 days for someone who can really waste their free time like me. I need to stay motivated. I need to run for a cause, I need to find my cause. Hahaha.

More run and less talk from today onward.