Sunday, September 12, 2010

time to stop?

You can take away his toys, his TV remote, his favorite sneaker, but you should never take away your love. Coz that is just not the way to punish a person or make your statements heard.

Even though sometimes things you do and sacrifice in the name of love is not appreciated the way you want it to be, or worst still, people take for granted and thought that you have the obligation to be nice to them and treat them like queen or king; you shouldn't just stop loving so easily.

This kind of advise is really plain dumb and shouldn't be taken seriously at all. There are about 6.9 billions people living on earth, you will never have enough love for everyone. So if that person dun appreciate your love at all, you might as well give it to someone else.

Stop thinking that by doing so makes you a mean and heartless person, you are being mean to yourself if you try to fool yourself that someday that person is going to change his/her mind and treat you better in the future. They won't, no matter how hard you hope or how bad you pray, they won't wake up 1 day and appreciate you suddenly.

It sucks to be me right now, as much as I want to take all my love away, I just can't do it no matter how I try to convince myself.

2 comments:

Katherine said...

interesting thought.. hehe..

敏感的思考者 said...

like how my brother put it: the put u resist, the more it persist.