Friday, July 30, 2010

you can't measure love like how you sized a penis

How soon is too soon?

Is 1 month too soon? Is 3 month too soon? How about half a year? A year?

Was a bit shocked to found out a friend of mine who I always see as a typical gaming nerd hiding in his dorm room got himself a girl friend in the span of 2 months industry training. Then the-forever-smart Mr. Tan says: Remember bout you and the gal working for the promoter job? Was it less than a month?

Oh wtf, I totally forgotten bout that.

See, there are no such thing as too soon or too long when comes to developed affection toward a person. Some take years, like a good old whisky; while others claimed to be sort of like love at first sight.

Sometimes the fondness come in the form of a giant tsunami, carrying you to an uncharted area with no warning. It can also take shape of small calm wave by the shoreline, gently caressing your feet.

So dun worry bout what the rest of the world tell you, you can move on when you are ready to move on. If you are not, you can take all the time you need to ready yourself.

What's the fun of doing something if you know that outcome of it from the beginning? That is why leap of faith is so much more exciting. Ms Quek just took 1 herself, and now I wonder when will I be doing so too?

1 comment:

leah said...

take ur time till u find the answer :) love ya